MOLESTATION
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Dear Parents:
Child molestation, pre-marital sex, and homosexuality are rampant in America. One of the ways we can protect our children is to teach them about Mahram/Namahran and educate them while they are at ages 5-12.
Mahram: People who are close, immediate family like brother, sister,
father, mother, uncle, aunt, grandparents.
Mahram people cannot marry each other (except husband and wife are
married and Mahram). Ladies do not have
to have hejab (head cover) in front of Mahram members of the family. Doctors are Mahram to their patients during
medical examination.
Namahram: Male and female who are not close family are Namahram to each
other, therefore, they should not have any contact, no hand shaking, no
touching, no hugging and definitely no kissing. It is embarrassing that in Islamic gatherings and occasions, we
see strange boys and girls kiss each other on the cheek and hug as a gesture of
friendship. This is a western culture
and definitely not recommended in Islam.
Please observe these etiquette especially in Islamic gatherings. If Mom and Dad do not shake hands with
Namahram, our youth will not kiss a Namahram.
Being alone with a Namahram is not recommended for
our boys and girls. Common expression
is when a boy and girl are alone together, the third person joining them is
Shaytan. These days in America even the
boys or girls should not be alone together because of so much danger of
homosexuality. Therefore, dating is
Haram in Islam.
We must teach our kids not to take shower without
their bathing suits with their friends even in school or college. It is Haram if you let a Namahram see your
private parts of your body. It is haram
if a Namahram touches you in your private parts, either boy or girl. This way we are educating our kids about
child molesters who may be in school or at home as a babysitter. Even during swimming and playing closely in
the water, touching and holding Namahram is Haram. If we teach our kids at age 7 then we do not have to worry about
a 15 year old girl wrestling in a pool with a Namahram.
Bad and
Evil: To live like westerners with a home
contaminated with tobacco, alcohol, drugs, and gambling is Haram. Friendship with Godless and immoral people,
kissing and hugging anybody who enters to a party, taking family to gambling
places for vacation and raising your children in the hallways of casinos and
cabarets is Haram. Husband and wife,
each going their own way and having their own friends and parties, and having
children raised by maids without parents and supervision is bad. Children follow their parents’ actions, not
their words. Dating of boys and girls
become impossible to avoid, an innocent dinner and movies soon may change to
holding hands, kissing, sexual relations, venereal disease, multiple dates,
staying out at nights, heavy make up, short dresses even bringing girlfriends
or boyfriends home and sleeping together, bad marriages, and multiple divorces
are eventual outcomes. Some unfortunate
boys and girls may end up with severe sexual disease like gonorrhea, syphilis,
herpes, hepatitis, and AIDS and miserable death.
1.
Mahram/Namahram: Avoid touching Namahram unless it is
absolutely necessary or vital. Follow
Halal/Haram rules.
2.
Touching
is bad: Male and female handshake is
bad but hugging or kissing is Haram.
3.
Dating
is bad: Dating male and female
(without chaperone) is bad and should be prevented to protect the chastity of
our youth.
4.
Sexual
contact outside of marriage is Haram:
You may agree that boys and girls could have sexual contact outside
marriage, but preventing sexually transmitted disease becomes impossible to
control. A broken family is a natural
consequence.
5.
Total
sexual freedom: Boys and girls are not
free to have sexual contact, adultery and fornication is Haram. Sexually transmitted diseases and broken
family is the price you pay for this freedom and rebel against God.
Islamic position is no touching of Namahram. Touching in the form of a handshake is in
the gray zone, but hugging, kissing or holding hands with Namahram is Haram.
As parents, it is your choice now where to draw the
line at stage 1, 2, or 3 and face the consequences.